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 Homosexuality is generally defined as a sexual relationship between partners of the same sex. Everyone knows about the problem about homosexuality, Homosexuality has long been recognized as treatable .Indeed, it would be accurate to say that all the existing evidence suggests strongly that homosexuality is quite changeable. This problem can be solve by family , society, and all people around them. According to common sense, science, logic, psychology and religion, all those aspects of present society, that have contributed to its civilization, homosexuality is irrational, illogical, abnormal and an immoral behavior. Those who practice is should not be personally condemned but their behavior should and solutions to their ills be found, and the free practice of homosexual behavior be stopped, so that our society prospers. If clear and concrete evidence were indeed found in the other direction, I would gladly change my above conclusions. Therefore let our end be towards the truth.

  As we know, family are backbone to built children behavior especially in teen time, to avoid them from do something out of control. firstly , family should give more attention to their children to avoid them to feel their parent neglect to pay attention to their children. Parents should give more time to spent with their family so parents can look out to their children behavior and can guide, so parent can be alert with the problem or bad behavior of their children. Beside that, parents should not just to be their mother or father but parents should trying to be their friends because from this way the children can feel more comfortable and more safety and they can share all their problem without keep any secret, experience and etc with their parents. Parents also no need to control or to push them too hard because children especially teenagers there have a lot of passion to do something or the new things that can make them feel have a challenges .Parents should observe their children to avoid them do something out of control.

   
  Secondly, society , government and NGO's should take this problem as a serious problem, nowadays the society thinks this problem are not their problem so they don’t want to take part to solve this problems. This is also their responsibilities to solve this problem because if we are not care with this problem, this problem will get worst. The society should look around and they also must take any action if they know something weird occur around them. The governments should tight the rules about this problem and recognize them and give them a special lecture or therapy .Government and NGO"s should do a campaign especially at school about homosexual. The religion department also shall take a part to solve this problem, with religious approach the person can change by their own, religious teachings is very important to change their heart. So, all people must take these responsibilities to solve this problem together.

  Besides that, the most important is about our own self. If we can differentiate between rights from wrong thing, we can avoid to involve in this problems. The teenagers can do the entire thing their like but make sure it is still under control. If they just want to follow their desire and passion it will be bad. Friends also on behalf of how this problem can occur because the teenagers spent a lot their time at school from that most of the time they spent with their friends. The teenagers can be join their friends but not follow their bad activities. If their friends do the bad things the teenagers should advise them do not to do the bad things. If they cannot the teenagers should report this problem to a party or person that they can solve this problems

EFFECT...!!

The issue of same sex attraction has been talk about people since ages. Different countries have different opinion and view about the issue of same sex attraction. The members of same sex attraction are trying to satisfying of their desires and searching for the attention, friendship, intimacy or fascination with their bodies and other gender traits.

Nowadays, people are more concern about the homosexual issue because it has too many bad effects. Besides that, our young generation can be influence by them. There are also the well-known artiste that practicing their homosexual lifestyle and has been married with their couple. The famous singer and pianist, Elton John is one of the artistes that married with a same sex. He was well-known as the successful gay in his country. People are idolizing him as a successful gay because of his succession in his career and live in a wealthy life. For some reason, he might be a good idol for young generation but there is also a bad influence that creates by him to them. His sexual orientation might influence our young generation to follow as him. Homosexual has many negative effects.

One of bad effect of homosexual is health effect. The gay or lesbian person will may get AIDS. A review of the history of homosexuality and AIDS, indicates the original spread of AIDS is generally attributed to the aforementioned promiscuity of homosexual men. Originally the syndrome was called the "gay disease" because the overwhelming majority of patients were homosexual men. As we know, world is still searching the best treatment to treat the person who got AIDS. In June of 2004, the journal Nursing Clinics of North America reported that homosexual men and men who have sex with men are nine times more likely to become infected with HIV than their heterosexual counterparts.

Other than that, family also can be affected but this problem. Relationship among family and the homosexual person will be damaged. It is because the family member are not agree with the choice. As we know, family is the most closed person with us. So if the relationship among family's member are not tight anymore, it can be affected to hall family. The family member also ashamed with other people because one of their family are make the bad life style.

This problem also can give effect to culture. Culture is one of the important basic things in everybody life. Life style of homosexual person can give a bad example to our culture. The children maybe will think that homosexual is the right life style, then they will follow it. So when it happened all the time, the culture can be more worst. On the other hand, people in other culture will think negative about our culture if we let homosexual as a new life style in our culture.

Last but not least, homosexual also can give effect to their country. If the homosexual are increased, the population of the country will dicreased. It is because the homosexual couple that married can't get a children. Other than that if a homosexual person join a professional field, other people may think that that field are not qualified to that homosexual person. Then relationship among workers can not be tight anymore.

All the effect shows that homosexual should not be accepted by anybody. It will became worst if this problems bece stome more serious. So some of solution must be taken to solve all of their problems.

effect of homosexual life..

hye all..
i am very agree with li wei about that web that she told us before this. That's web is :

http://www.catholiceducation.org/articles/homosexuality/ho0075.html

http://www.pubmedcentral.nih.gov/articlerender.fcgi?artid=1114912

From thats web we all can know how homosexual life can give bad effect to the gay or lesbian. It such a horrable things. People should know that all of this unhealhthy life can give a very bad impact to our healthy. Other than that, it also can give another bad impact such as to our family, society or to our country.

After this, i will post all the bad effect of homosexual life. I hope all thats information can give as a sign how danger to be a gay or lesbian.

Some statistics about the Homosexual lifestyle: 

One study reports 70% of homosexuals admitting to having sex only one time with over 50% of their partners . 
One study reports that the average homosexual has between 20 and 106 partners per year . The average heterosexual has 8 partners in a lifetime. 
Many homosexual sexual encounters occur while drunk, high on drugs, or in an orgy setting . 
Many homosexuals don't pay heed to warnings of their lifestyles: "Knowledge of health guidelines was quite high, but this knowledge had no relation to sexual behavior" . 
Homosexuals got homosexuality removed from the list of mental illnesses in the early 70s by storming the annual American Psychiatric Association (APA) conference on successive years. "Guerrilla theater tactics and more straight-forward shouting matches characterized their presence" . Since homosexuality has been removed from the APA list of mental illnesses, so has pedophilia (except when the adult feels "subjective distress") . 
Homosexuals account for 3-4% of all gonorrhea cases, 60% of all syphilis cases, and 17% of all hospital admissions (other than for STDs) in the United States . They make up only 1-2% of the population. 
Homosexuals live unhealthy lifestyles, and have historically accounted for the bulk of syphilis, gonorrhea, Hepatitis B, the "gay bowel syndrome" (which attacks the intestinal tract), tuberculosis and cytomegalovirus . 
73% of psychiatrists say homosexuals are less happy than the average person, and of those psychiatrists, 70% say that the unhappiness is NOT due to social stigmatization . 
25-33% of homosexuals and lesbians are alcoholics . 
Of homosexuals questioned in one study reports that 43% admit to 500 or more partners in a lifetime, 28% admit to 1000 or more in a lifetime, and of these people, 79% say that half of those partners are total strangers, and 70% of those sexual contacts are one night stands (or, as one homosexual admits in the film "The Castro", one minute stands). Also, it is a favorite past-time of many homosexuals to go to "cruisy areas" and have anonymous sex. 
78% of homosexuals are affected by STDs . 
Judge John Martaugh, chief magistrate of the New York City Criminal Court has said, "Homosexuals account for half the murders in large cities" . 
Captain William Riddle of the Los Angeles Police says, "30,000 sexually abused children in Los Angeles were victims of homosexuals" . 
50% of suicides can be attributed to homosexuals. 
Dr. Daniel Capron, a practicing psychiatrist, says, "Homosexuality by definition is not healthy and wholesome. The homosexual person, at best, will be unhappier and more unfulfilled than the sexually normal person". For other psychiatrists who believe that homosexuality is wrong, please see National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality. 
It takes approximately 300,000 to take care of each AIDS victim, so thanks to the promiscuous lifestyle of homosexuals, medical insurance rates have been skyrocketing for all of us.

Homosexuals were responsible for spreading AIDS in the United States, and then raised up violent groups like Act Up and Ground Zero to complain about it. Even today, homosexuals account for well over 50% of the AIDS cases in the United States, which is quite a large number considering that they account for only 1-2% of the population. 
Homosexuals account for a disproportionate number of hepatitis cases: 70-80% in San Francisco, 29% in Denver, 66% in New York City, 56% in Toronto, 42% in Montreal, and 26% in Melbourne . 
37% of homosexuals engage in sadomasochism, which accounts for many accidental deaths. In San Francisco, classes were held to teach homosexuals how to not kill their partners during sadomasochism . 
41% of homosexuals say they have had sex with strangers in public restrooms, 60% say they have had sex with strangers in bathhouses, and 64% of these encounters have involved the use of illegal drugs . 
Depending on the city, 39-59% of homosexuals are infected with intestinal parasites like worms, flukes and amoebae, which is common in filthy third world countries .
The median age of death of homosexuals is 42 (only 9% live past age 65). This drops to 39 if the cause of death is AIDS. The median age of death of a married heterosexual man is 75. 
The median age of death of lesbians is 45 (only 24% live past age 65). The median age of death of a married heterosexual woman is 79 . 
Homosexuals are 100 times more likely to be murdered (usually by another homosexual) than the average person, 25 times more likely to commit suicide, and 19 times more likely to die in a traffic accident . 
21% of lesbians die of murder, suicide or traffic accident, which is at a rate of 534 times higher than the number of white heterosexual females aged 25-44 who die of these things. 
50% of the calls to a hotline to report "queer bashing" involved domestic violence (i.e., homosexuals beating up other homosexuals) .
About 50% of the women on death row are lesbians . Homosexuals prey on children.
33% of homosexuals ADMIT to minor/adult sex . 
There is a notable homosexual group, consisting of thousands of members, known as the North American Man and Boy Love Association ( NAMBLA). This is a child molesting homosexual group whose cry is "SEX BEFORE 8 BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE." This group can be seen marching in most major homosexual parades across the United States. 
Homosexuals commit more than 33% of all reported child molestations in the United States, which, assuming homosexuals make up 2% of the population, means that 1 in 20 homosexuals is a child molestor, while 1 in 490 heterosexuals is a child molestor. 
73% of all homosexuals have had sex with boys under 19 years of age . 
Many homosexuals admit that they are pedophiles: "The love between men and boys is at the foundation of homosexuality". 
Because homosexuals can't reproduce naturally, they resort to recruiting children. Homosexuals can be heard chanting "TEN PERCENT IS NOT ENOUGH, RECRUIT, RECRUIT, RECRUIT" in their homosexual parades. A group called the "Lesbian Avengers" prides itself on trying to recruit young girls. They print "WE RECRUIT" on their literature. Some other homosexuals aren't as overt about this, but rather try to infiltrate society and get into positions where they will have access to the malleable minds of young children (e.g., the clergy, teachers, Boy Scout leaders, etc.). See the DC Lesbian Avengers web page, and DC Lesbian Avengers Press Release, where they threaten to recruit little boys and girls. Also, see AFA Action Alert.

             There are two aspects to marriage: the legal and the spiritual. Marriage is more than a social convention, like being "best friends" with somebody, because heterosexual marriage usually results in the production of children. Marriage is a legal institution in order to offer protection for women and children. Women need to have the freedom to devote their time and energies to be the primary nurturers and caretakers of children without being forced to be breadwinners as well. God's plan is that children grow up in families who provide for them, protect them, and wrap them in security. 

           Because gay or lesbian couples are by nature unable to reproduce, they do not need the legal protection of marriage to provide a safe place for the production and raising of children. Apart from the sexual aspect of a gay relationship, what they have is really "best friend" status, and that does not require legal protection. 

            Of course, a growing number of gay couples are seeking to have a child together, either by adoption, artificial insemination, or surrogate mothering. Despite the fact that they have to resort to an outside procedure in order to become parents, the presence of adults plus children in an ad hoc household should not automatically secure official recognition of their relationship as a family. There is a movement in our culture which seeks to redefine "family" any way we want, but with a profound lack of discernment about the long-term effects on the people involved. Gay parents are making a dangerous statement to their children: lesbian mothers are saying that fathers are not important, and homosexual fathers are saying that mothers are not important. More and more social observers see the importance of both fathers and mothers in children's lives; one of their roles is to teach boys what it means to be a boy and teach girls what it means to be a girl. 

             The other aspect of marriage is of a spiritual nature. Granted, this response to the gay marriage argument won't make any difference to people who are unconcerned about spiritual things, but there are a lot of gays who care very deeply about God and long for a relationship with Him. The marriage relationship, both its emotional and especially its sexual components, is designed to serve as an earthbound illustration of the relationship . Just as there is a mystical oneness between a man and a woman, who are very different from each other, so there is a mystical unity between two very different, very "other" beings the eternal Son of God and us mortal, creaturely humans. Marriage as God designed it is like the almost improbable union of butterfly and buffalo, or fire and water. But homosexual relationships are the coming together of two like individuals; the dynamic of unity and diversity in heterosexual marriage is completely missing, and therefore so is the spiritual dimension that is so intrinsic to the purpose of marriage. Both on an emotional and a physical level, the sameness of male and male, or female and female, demonstrates that homosexual relationships do not reflect the spiritual parable that marriage is meant to be. God wants marriage partners to complement, not to mirror, each other. The concept of gay marriage doesn't work, whether we look at it on a social level or a spiritual one.

           h0mosexual are a person who has an emotional and physical attraction to the same sex. Homosexuality refers to sexual behavior or attraction between people of the same sex or to homosexual orientation. As a sexual orientation, homosexuality refers to having sexual and romantic attraction primarily or exclusively to members of one’s own sex it also refers to an individuals sense of personal and social identity based on those attractions, behaviors expressing them, and membership in a community of others who share them.Homosexuality, bisexuality, and heterosexuality together make up the three main classifications of sexual orientation and are part of the Heterosexual-homosexual continuum. The exact proportion of the population that has had homosexual contact is difficult to estimate reliably, but most recent studies place it at 2–13%.The prevalence of male homosexuality may vary over time and across societies in part because of variations in fertility rate or family size and the fraternal birth order effect.

        Sexual orientation is also distinguished from other aspects of sexuality, including biological sex (the anatomical, physiological, and genetic characteristics associated with being male or female), gender identity (the psychological sense of being male, female or other), and social gender role (adherence to cultural norms defining feminine and masculine behavior).

           Etymologically, the word homosexual is a Greek and Latin hybrid with homos (sometimes confused with an unrelated Latin word for "man", as in Homo sapiens) deriving from the Greek word for same, thus connoting sexual acts and affections between members of the same sex, including lesbianism.The word gay generally refers to male homosexuality, but is sometimes used in a broader sense to refer to homosexuality in general. In the context of sexuality, the word lesbian denotes female homosexuality.

           There is much evidence of both acceptance and repression of homosexual behavior throughout recorded history. During the last several decades, there has been a trend towards increased visibility, recognition, and legal rights for homosexuals, including marriage and civil unions, parenting rights, and equal access to health care.

s0lutions

        now a days, ar0und the world already kn0w about h0m0sexual are getting worst. but m0st peoples are take it easy ab0ut this pr0blem.i have a few solutions that we can share it together how to reduce and avoid this pr0blem occur. The solution are family is backborn to built their children behavior, society ,goverment, NGO'S, religion departmen and the most important is the children control their behavior.

       As we know,family are backborn to built our family esprcially children to create their behavior to avoid them from do something out of control. first , family should give more attention to their children to avoid them to feel their parent neglect their children. Parents sh0uld devide and manage their time how spent their time wth their family and their w0rk from that the parents can look out their children children behavior and can guide them n0t to do something out of control. Beside that, parents should not just to be their mother or father but parents should trying to be their freinds because from this way the children can feel more confortable and more safety  and they can share their problem , experience and etc with their parents. Parents also no need to control or to push them to hard because children especially teenagers there have a lot of pasion to do something or the new things that can make them feel have a challanges. From that parents should observe their children to avoid them do something out of control.

         

          Second, all the society , goverment n NGO's should take this problem as a serious because now we can look the society are not care abaut that because in their mind they dont want to busy body with this problem. the society also important to solve this problems because if we are not care this problem can be increase and is getting worst, The society should look around and they also must take in action if they know something weird occur around them.the goverment should tight the rules about this problem and catch them and give them grounded.Goverment  and NGO"s  should do the campaing especially at school about homosexual . the relion department also should take in action to s0lve this problem because this problem can give bad respond to the other religion and they dont want to respect our religion anymore especially all the muslim people.From that they can know the bad things of homosexual. They must take in action because now all the rules are to loose this can make homosexual problem can spread and increase.

          Beside that, the most important is all thing about our own self. if we know bad or good thing we can avoid and cannot involve in this problems. the  teenagers can do all the thing their like but make sure it is still under control. if they just want to follow their desire and pasion it will be bad. Friends also on behalf of how this problem can occur because the teenagers spent a lot their time at school from that most of the time they spent with their freinds. The teenagers can be join their freinds but not follow their bad activies. If their friends d0 the bad things the teenagers should advise them do not to do the bad things. If they cannot the teenegers should report this problem to a party or person that they can solve this problems.

         

--Impack--Fatin--

To fatin:

i found and article about impact in the web

http://www.catholiceducation.org/articles/homosexuality/ho0075.html

http://www.pubmedcentral.nih.gov/articlerender.fcgi?artid=1114912

Through this web article, i know that got many impact for homosexual such as it will destroy our healthy, it say that around two thirds of gay men in the world have anal sex, This is because sexually transmitted disease are common in all gay people with a high number of different partners. Beside that, the transmission of infection through vaginal and anal intercourse is no different, but is a part from HIV.Hepatitis A and Giardia are spread through oro-anal contact. The greater incidence of hepatitis B is an indicator of a large number of partner, not of specific sexual practices.

Moreover, still got many impact of homosexual that can destroy our life, so, i hope you can search some information that can proof that impact. You can search in internet and go to library search book, last week i and sin yen went library search homosexual's book and discover here got a lot of book that you can use in our project.. i really hope Fatin and Ema can go to find and search some information about our assignment.

at the end, i really hope Fatin and Ema can always upload or visite our blog and give some comman about our homosexual title, thank a lot.... Hope can receive your feedback....

--solution--

I found one article in internet said then one of the solution to homosexual problem is tight the law. That article said that have 5 westerm countries allows homosexual people to marry, the country is Netherland, Belgium, Spain, South Africa and Canada. Sometimes these are called 'same sex marriage' or 'gay marriage'. Allow homosexual people marry mean they can got benefits include paying less taxes, getting their spouse's insurance, inheriting property, social security benefits and other benefits whice same with the non-homosexual person marry.

But in other countries, homosexual is not allow and is a crime. For example, Islamic law is used in some places to imprison and even killed homosexual person.

You all can visit this web site

http://simple.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality to see the detail.

**warning**

to Ema and Fatin:
i sure you two haven't forgot that homosexual is a group assignment. If you two really don't wan reply my message and then tuesday can't email me your part, then i will report to lectural. don't say is my false, because you two really don't wan cooperate then why i need feel sorry to you?? And then izit you two know that we need pass up the draft on wednesday? why don't care about that, izit this is not important to your, and then need i remain and remain.

And then please always check our blog.... i remain you that project is a group assignment..

Thank a lot... And then don't worry, If your two cooperate then i won't let lectural see this blog, i will delete it and then don't print out.. but if your dont cooperate then i will............

~~~Atention~~~

hi, to my all dearest group member. before monday (9 march) can email all your part to me or not?
This is because wednesday we need pass up our homosexual project already. Thank you very much, and then hope we can corporate done our project easyly. ~_~ thank your co-oporate.

My Opinion

Yes, I totally agree with SinYen opinion, nature behavior not is a main cause of homosexual. Because only a little argument, survey and scientific article that can proof natural argument is one of the causes of the homosexual. But, we cant ignore this argument because have a little people became a homosexual person cause by abnormal hormones especially twin brother.

Beside that, I also thought that influence of the environment is the main cause of homosexual. I totally agree with SinYen opinion, influence of the family is very important point. This is because relationship between family is very important, for example, if our family have a sibling or parent with homosexual tendencies, particularly on who molests a child of the same sex. So, that child majority will become to a homosexual person. Other that, family also can reduce homosexual problem. This is because we are closer with our family. If parent take care their child, must persuade their children avoid to become a homosexual person and teach them about the causes and impact of homosexual.

This is my opinion about homosexual issue. What are the opinion for other group member? *-*

Feedback To Li Wei

Hi, li wei^^
Seems u have found some proofs which the nature arguments got a bit influence on issue homosexual.So i hv agree some parts of these proofs.But in my opinion ,i still strongly agree that the main causes on issue homosexual is caused by surrounding environment. Expecially is caused by family environment.I have found that the background of their family can caused them lead to unhealthy sexual orientation~same-sex. Mostly homosexual men and homosexual women have a poor relationship with their parents.I want to add some explaination on this statement.For example, a homosexual man usually lack of male role model and lack of intimate with their father. So they will easily indulged themselves on finding a man which can satisfy their desire.
Besides, culture environment can also caused homosexual happended. As my opinion, i think the western culture seems like to persuade us and give us the perception which the homosexual is acceptable and legilable. I want to add my poins which can proof my statement.For example, nowadays have a lot of movies and films are related to the tag homosxual . The famous homosexual movie is "Brokeback Mountain".This movie is focus on love or romance between the two cowboys. They have fall in love each other. Besides, arthist like jacky chong and so on are gays. This phenomeneon seems a trend which can lead teenagers follow this culture and as a result teenagers are easily influence by this unhealthy culture.
As my opinion, homosexual seems more acceptable and legilable in western country while in asian country seems cannot accept it .Do my groupmates agree with that?What are you all opinion about that?I hope i can get some respones from my groupmates^^

~~Attention~~

hi, may i know where is Ema and Fatin? can give feedback about my distribute part? agree my suggestion or not? i hope we all can corporate and faster done our group project. thank you very much.